Why we have to pretend

Let me asked you things,

What would you do when you have your boyfriend around? Would you dressed up nicely and take your best shoes out of the box? What would it be if he asked you to go out? Would you say no as you have homework to do? Would you take your money and go to grocery store to fill your fridge? Would you spray flower scent so your living room smells good? Would you let him enter your bathroom if you haven’t had a time to brush it before? Would you showed him your full-dirty-dishes kitchen, or you would wash it all just before he arrives? Would you pretend your home is your real home though you think its all sucks matters? Would you treat your maid nicely when she broke your favorite mug in front of him? Would you say “Sorry, have no small change” when a beggar knock your door? Would you hold your hick up as you don’t want to look silly of the creepy sound? Would you mind to stop your talking when it’s time to pray? Do you think he’ll fine with that even when you do so? Do you consider he’ll understand?

Now when you’re marrying him for a year or two, will your clothes remain used shirts or you’re still well-dressed for him? Would you forgive him each day when he throw his socks as he like after work, or you simply take those pair and said “Its okay, hon!” Would you cook him his favorite meal even when you’re so not cooking? Would you have him around when you’re feeling blue and mad? Would you forgive him when he made a mistake or two? Would you still love him even when he’s old, sick, and disgusting? Would you wrap your arms around him when he cried? Would you apologize even when you’re so right? Would you still follow him when he said “Come with me?” Would you stay when he asked you to leave? Would you tried to open the door once again? Would you still believe him after the affair? Would you give him a second chance? Would you say “I love you” even when he’s so terribly jerk? Would you mind to say “I used to love you for so many things, and I still love you even when so many things don’t remain the same?” Would you show him how to love unselfishly even when there’s no love left for you?

Have it ever crossed your mind that in the day when you tied up your self in to marriage option, you risking the rest of your life for him? Have you prepared your self for the worst? Did you take a short course to be a wife and a mother? Have you passed the exam of being grown up and ready for lifetime commitment? Have it ever crossed your mind that probably in a year or two, your love flame will possibly died, then you probably think “If only I…” Would you still think that you did the right thing when you have that feeling by the end and saying “You’re right, I’m not prepared?”

quote from someone.

Sarahsan 9Jan08